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    所謂懂事,都是隱忍

    發表時間:2019-04-16用戶:夢落花閱讀:537
    從小我們就被灌輸這樣一個思想:大的必須讓著小的。滿招損,謙受益是我們每個人都聽說過的一句話,可這對于一個五六歲的孩子來說,謙讓并沒有讓自己得到什么,反而會讓自己委屈。
    大的必須讓著小的的思想根深蒂固,可是在懵懂的年紀,不明白什么是謙讓,只知道:我們差不多年紀,不過比TA大一點兒,憑什么我就得懂事,我就得讓著TA,而且這也并沒有讓我得到自己想要的東西。
    孩子的世界簡單而純粹,沒有那些復雜的觀念和規則,只是知道懂事的結果就是自己受委屈。家長在夸贊孩子懂事的時候,不曾去想孩子是想要這么做嗎,是想要這個“好孩子”獎嗎。孩子的懂事并沒有換來自己想要的,那TA就會問我為什么要懂事,我為什么要做好孩子,為什么要把自己的東西給別人。
    為了一句“好孩子”的贊譽,讓自己受委屈的同時還得看著別人的孩子笑,看著自己的東西在別人的手里把玩,卻不能擁有。這樣日積月累下來的委屈會造成什么樣的后果是可想而知的,也是不得而知的。
    其實,這也折射出很多家長對孩子教育的偏差,打著我是為了你好的名義,一再的去傷害自己的孩子。他們被逼著按照你所設定的方向上走,即使萬般不愿意也得接受。
    我們也只看到了那個年紀小的孩子笑了,卻沒有注意到你口中的那個所謂的“好孩子”,一臉委屈,眼含淚水。
    孩子都是一個獨立的個體,他們有自己的思想和看法,也渴望被尊重被理解,不是誰的附庸品,所以我希望各位家長多在孩子的角度和立場上去考慮問題,多了解孩子的感受和想法。
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